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How does one succeed in life?

16.06.2025 04:06

How does one succeed in life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

That's it for today.

My stepmother has banned me from the family. Can she legally keep me from going to my father's funeral?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why do guys look up TikTok girls instead of porn? My boyfriend of two years, looks up big boobs on TikTok. He has never once cheated on me, not on social media or IRL. He claims it’s to “get off real quick if I’m not home.”

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

California schools are very liberal. Do you think California schools are teaching students to hate Republican views (views on: God, guns, prayer, secure borders, etc.)?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

You guys are talking about having sex with dogs. I heard a news man was trying to have sex with a female dog and got stuck inside. Is that possible? How does it feel inside a dog’s vagina?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What made you recently say to yourself, “Wait. Really?”

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can we become the best humans? How can we trust each other?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Are democrats inherently stupid or just lazy? They can Google " Ohio is investigating reports by residents that migrants are eating the local wildlife " why can't they seem to do the most simple things? Blind, ignorant, stupid or obtuse?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Did you know God exists? 900+ answers later and no atheist has yet to be successful. Day 8 of asking Atheists to provide a SINGLE argument that demonstrates a cause for the beginning of the universe while avoiding the problem of infinite regression.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Does not procrastinate.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do Republicans give permission to Democrats to vote for any candidate except for Kamala Harris?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How do you weigh in on the Vance-couch conversation?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.